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First Home Study

It’s been a busy week. We had our first home study appointment on Wednesday and came home with a HUGE folder of more paper to fill out. I am currently working on writing a biography of my life (Matt and I each fill one out.) It’s hard to not get lost in all this paper. We were down at the police station for fingerprinting (FBI and State background checks.) We’ve signed up as foster parents for the state of Colorado. According to US law, we are considered foster parents of our daughter until she’s been in our home for 6 months. Then she is officially a US citizen! We are working on health reports (everyone in our family gets to undergo a physical, bloodwork, etc), copies of our insurance and finances…everything is exposed…I don’t think there is one area that does not go unchecked!

I found myself really emotional at that meeting as we discussed possibly medical conditions of the child we would adopt. My first thought was, “If I was pregnant, I wouldn’t get to choose if my baby was healthy or sick. Why do I choose that when I adopt a child?” The reality of illness, of disease, hit home. It is hard to decide how much “we can handle” when it comes to adopting a child. Matt continues to remind me that God chose the little girl who will be our daughter before the earth was even created. He knows who she is, what she will look like, everything about her. She is the perfect fit for our family. I cannot worry about the fact that she might have HIV or Heptitus. God is in control. This part is hard again–it’s hard to surrender control.

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  1. {B} says

    Hi Melodie, I remember being so overwhelmed when I got that folder…its a lot to take in and is quite emotional. Can’t wait to hear how everything else is going.

    Brit



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